See yourself in full colour.
Six questionnaires about who you are and how you love. Free, private, and kept on your own device.
Choose a questionnaireNo account. Nothing you answer is sent anywhere.
Six ways to look.
Hopper Big FiveFive broad traits that describe how people differ, each of them split into two aspects.3 to 15 min
Hopper Personality TypesFour preferences, and the type they make together: where your energy goes, what you notice, how you decide, and how you like to live.6 min
Hopper AttachmentHow you tend to be when you are close to someone: how sure you are of them, and how near you let them come.5 min
Hopper Love StylesThe ways you most feel cared for, in your own order: words, time together, help, touch, and tokens.5 min
Hopper Nine TypesNine patterns of what drives a person, in the Enneagram tradition, and which of them your answers fit best.8 min
Hopper Personal StrengthsTwenty-four strengths of character, in your own order, with the handful that are most yours.8 to 25 min
Then put it together.
Each result is one colour. Take two or three and the Map draws them as one picture, and says where they agree and where they pull against each other, with your own answers behind every word.
Open the Map
Better with two.
Share one result with your partner, by a link that holds only that result. See where you are alike, where you differ, and one thing to try this week.
See how it worksOur versions, and the originals.
Where the research questions are free to use, we use them and say so. Where a famous test belongs to someone else, we tell you what it is, send you to the official one, and offer our own version beside it.
How we name thingsA shelf worth reading.
The books, sites, and talks behind these ideas, from John Gottman, Dan Siegel, Sue Johnson, and others. Every link goes to its maker's own page.
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