The ways you most feel cared for, in your own order: words, time together, help, touch, and tokens.
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- ScientificComing soon. Research on how people differ in feeling cared for is thin, and we are looking for a published measure we are free to use.Coming soon

What you answer
Each question offers two things someone close might do. Choose the one that would make you feel more cared for.
“Being told, in so many words, that I am loved.” or “An evening together with nothing else going on.”
What you get
Your own order, from the most to the least, with the answers behind each. The result opens with one sentence about you.
Where the questions come from
Popular. Twenty pairs written by Hopper Labs. Our own version; not The 5 Love Languages quiz.
What it is not
It is not a diagnosis, and no result is better than another. It is your own description of yourself, added up, and it can change. Nothing is compared with other people.
The well-known one
Kept where
Your answers and results stay in this browser, on this device. There is no account, and nothing is sent anywhere.